"Hedgehog Dilemma"

Some people only think of themselves being perceived by others. One can only find out who they are by looking in themselves. People think they are who they are because others tell them who they are and how they are judged by others. In fact, there are many versions of a person. The version of you in a person’s mind and the version of you in your own mind. Therefore, to each and every individual there’s a version of you in their mind. Not everyone in this world think of you in the same way another thinks. In order to be self realized you do things in order to get people’s attention. You don’t think of what you want or what you can do. You only do what you’re told so that people can see what you’ve done and praise you for that. And in doing so you’ve become a selfish coward. A coward that only thinks of himself or herself and not thinking of what others want. They only think of what others think of them and not wanting others to think badly of them. They fear being hated and they put walls around themselves so that they can’t get close to anyone or anything. For if they do, they end up hurting the other person...or worse, they end up hurting themselves. And so in order for them to not get hurt by others, they develop a wall of isolation around themselves so that nothing can get close. So to not hurt themselves or other people, they end up hurting themself and others by not wanting to be with others and not wanting to get close with others. How ironic....